When I was commuting, I took a boat to work. Although this may sound glamorous, it's still a commute like any other. Okay, I'm a liar. It beats the bus by a mile. We can drink beer, play games, use wi-fi, and enjoy the stunning panorama of the Puget Sound.
There are the miniature cultures that I've seen that spring up from all of that forced fun. I've divided everyone up into the following categories:
Work BuddiesPrevious affiliations take first spot in the way people connect. For instance, if a group works together, or are neighbors that group will form a clique.
Stuff In Common Next are people searched out for similar qualities. In my case, I sat by the plug so I could keep my laptop battery charged. Other people with laptops started to sit with me and we formed a clique.
VisitorsNext are the visitors, people who are coming to visit people on the other side of the water, or tourists seeing what the peninsula has to offer. They are people you can have an exchange with, but may never see again.
Lurkers & Work-a-holicsThe singles who you'll seen around the boat are generally lurkers who float from group to group and alter the dynamic of the group with their presence. They never form any deep connections, but they do have acquaintances with a huge breadth of people. And you'll find the workers. Those people who are here just to get home and back to work again. These folks work the whole way there and the whole way back without talking to anyone unless it serves a purpose.
Online or offline, we socialize in the same ways. Take these examples and identify in your Facebook account who fits into which of these categories. And why are we creating these virtual "communities" that so perfectly mimics the real deal?
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